My Mother In Law Calls My Husband 10 Times A Day

Best My Mother In Law Calls My Husband 10 Times A Day

My mother in law calls my husband 10 times a day. She calls for no reason and if she has a reason it s not a good one to call for. I am a woman in my 50s looking for advice on how to cope with my needy and manipulative mother who is in her 80s. We live in different countries and we meet each other only once in a year. She ll do it sometimes more than 3 times a day.

One colleague i speak to has just come off the phone to her mother at 10am. She says they talk three or four times a week. My mil is constantly calling my husband. She is active has a good social life.

My wife is too close to her mom who is always chiming in. Physically she is in really good shape. Tie me to a post and flog me if i ever get up in my daughter in law s lacy thongs without asking her first. He s not real good about calling so i am usually the one initiating the calls moreover he is getting old and i am worried about his health.

If she can t reach my husband she ll call the house then me and if no answer she ll start the cycle over again. But there is also such a thing as period underwear. My toxic mother in law was cut out of lives for 12 blissful peaceful months she would randomly call at odd times to get my husband to answer because he thought something was wrong. He sent her a three word text a month ago for mother s day and she has been relentlessly worming her way back in since.

Fold my daughter in law s laundry without her permission. I also call my mother in law twice or thrice a week. Buy my daughter in law clothes only i would wear. She has been home for 2 weeks and has called my aunt and my parents at minimum 20 times per day each demanding that she needs someone there with her she is lonely and can t be alone.

She calls me every day she says. I call my mother everyday and dad twice a week. My aunt felt guilty from my grandma s constant complaints and took her home. There is something sweet and generous about helping without being asked.

Even if my aunt just left her house. She ll call to ask whatchya doin ask what everyone else is doing and hang up. As much as i tell my wife to not fill her mother in on every aspect of our life she always tells me to my face that she will keep her mother out of it but within the hour my mother in law is calling and offering her opinion on things. A loving relationship can be an oasis in uncertain times but nurturing it requires attention honesty openness vulnerability and gratitude.

Then my mother and sister passed within a year of each other and we sold our house and moved in with my mother in law.